Communication Part 2

The trap

A few years ago, under dramatic circumstances, I was acquainted with an interesting woman. Even though I am a bit of a loner, we communicated quickly. I think that after a while, we supported each other in problem solving, and benefited from multiple opportunities by combining one another's creative potential. Our situation had crushed and grounded us. It seemed we were stuck in the centre of an ocean of suffering and even though we would tried hard to realize our successive inspirations, on the stage of material theatre, nothing has changed. She would shacked up in my house with her very sick son, due to an unusually difficult family situation. Although "she understood" the need to live with the drama of every-day life with sick people, she could not bear the suffering linked to the present medical problems of my children. Its a great challenge for human beings to be around the pain of people closest to them, and have the ability to control their minds from the point of view where they remain content.

Emotions accompanied by permanent changes, but simultaneously protracted "pathology" are the most frequent deterrent which enforces a destructive way of thinking and is followed by an adequate way of creation in this world. If we follow this pattern we are trapped. They moved out after four months. My acquaintance quickly detached from her chronically ill son. It would appear that along with ridding herself of the necessity among the ocean of suffering, her mood will improve and her quality of life will increase.

Three years have past. She arrived as I had noticed by her appearance and had heard in her voice, in a very unattractive state. She was crushed by her lack of productivity and was searching for a reason why. How hard is it to comprehend this, for we are not yet prepared, due to a valuation of our logic brain ( we simply feel compelled by others or circumstances), is an essential part of performance of life, serving to grow new traits necessary to take the next step on the path to our proper development. My acquaintance "got away" because she was trapped and became impotent in creating new conditions towards increasing her own possibilities even though her capacities to take this step (towards her own development) were uncommon.

We have many choices. Most of all, we have free will, which is holy.